REALIZE

"if you just realized what i just realized then.."
--Realize, Colbie Caillat

-- it`s hard being humble. it`s even hard to forgive & forget. & it`s extremely hard for me to let down my pride & forgive someone for disappointing me.. but it`s okay now. forgiving is a learning process & i`m slowly realizing that holding a grudge isn`t going to help me in anyway.

no matter how much or how long i try to hold onto the grudge, i`ll eventually let it go. & the thing about holding grudges is that you can`t progress further into anything if you don`t let it go. so basically, you`ll be stuck at that stage until you forgive & let it go. nothing can grow from grudges & i`m slowly learning to understand that.

yes it`s very hard to accept the disappointment & ignoring the problem is not going to help because if the other person doesn`t know what they did wrong, they won`t know you`re holding a grudge. & ignoring the person isn`t the answer because that will never get you anywhere.

one day, i`ll be able to confront people with my problems & i won`t take the short way out by holding a grudge..


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one day, it will all be okay :]



[X] stage ONE: forgive -- .CHECK.