feeling used [?]..
[A PASSING MOMENT]
sometimes i wonder if people actually think about what they want to say, before they say it..
_i woke up today to that question. i thought about it over & over again and wondered what would happen if we all took the time to think about what we say before it comes out of our mouth & this is my answer.. we wouldn`t regret it. words do hurt a lot, & i don`t mean only the bad words, but the good ones too. when we start to abuse & manipulate a "good" word, we tend to make it bad by the way we use it..
take the word L O V E for example:
-- you can say you love anyone, but you`ll just be over-stretching & over using the word, especially since the word L O V E is suppose to be said to the people you really care about, people who really have an impact in your life. the word L O V E should definitely be used when you ACTUALLY mean it sincerely from the bottom of your heart.
JOHNthreesixteen--
"For God so LOVE the world that He gave His only begotten Son, and said, whoever believes in Him shall have eternal life."
firstJOHNfournineteen --
"We L O V E because HE first L O V E D us"
God doesn`t want us to use a word that He, Himself, used to express His deepest feelings to us to be tossed around like a ball. He doesn`t want us to CHEAPEN L O V E because it`s not something you want to take for granted, L O V E is something we want to cherish & treasure more than gold & silver :]
another example would be the word H A T E: this is a very strong word & if you`re using it as another word for "dislike," then it`s being used incorrectly, because H A T E is used only in extreme measures & even then, we still shouldn`t use it. In the bible, God took away EVERYTHING Job had, but even then, Job still NEVER hated God for it, but instead, Job continued to have faith in God.. so why should we " H A T E " people who do bad & say bad things to us when Job had it WAYYY worst than us?
just stop. & give it a ponder :]
"stop saying things you don`t mean. OR. just stop saying things that means too much! not only WILL it create confusion & hurt people..."
it`ll leave a scar...
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Schadenfreude
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